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Everything we have written about shame.

6 guides carry this tag.


  1. Forgiveness

    Forgiving yourself — what the Bible actually says

    The Bible never tells you to forgive yourself. It tells you something better: God is the judge, and if he has forgiven you, your task is to agree with his verdict. Here is what that looks like.

  2. Shame and guilt

    Guilt, conviction and shame: telling them apart

    Guilt is a fact, conviction is God's call to come back, and shame is the fear that you are beyond love. Learning the difference changes how you confess and how you heal.

  3. Shame and guilt

    Is It a Sin to Hate Yourself? A Biblical Answer

    Self-hatred is not the same as hating sin. Scripture calls you to honest self-examination, not contempt for the person God made.

  4. Shame and guilt

    Shame from things done to you

    Being abused, assaulted or mistreated is not your sin and needs no confession. Here is what Scripture says to people carrying shame that belongs to someone else, and where to find safety and help.

  5. Shame and guilt

    Starting again

    After a serious failure it can feel as if your life with God is over. It is not. Scripture is full of people who began again, and it shows how: honestly, humbly, and one ordinary day at a time.

  6. Forgiveness

    When you can't forget

    The Bible never says forgive and forget. Remembering a wrong, yours or someone else's, is not the same as failing to forgive. Here is what God's forgetting means, and what to do with a memory that returns.

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